We must not be surprised
if our instincts are not all that they should be in love. The sober truth is
that sometimes we get it wrong with matters of the heart. You may get a flutter
in your stomach and get lost in his or her eyes, but many people get lost in
new places they visit, so I wouldn't read too much into it.
When someone leaves you
breathless also remember that feeling out of breath is a common symptom of
respiratory related ailments. It might be more important to seek medical
attention rather than act on your instinct that wheezing is a sign from the heavens
to get a date or phone number.
I once had a girlfriend
who laughed at all my lame jokes and told me I was funny. She followed me
everywhere like a smitten kitten. That, instinctively, is how attraction and
love works, right? It was unnerving how she would follow me even to the
bathroom and watch me do my business. She stuck to me like the spots on a
Dalmatian and seemed to think I might escape through some secret rear door if
she wasn't keeping a watchful eye on me.
It is a great feeling
that someone needs you. But needing you the entire time is also an instinctive
red flag. We all need some space or independence as adults.
Comparison to the Ex
dulls the axe of any relationship. Instinctively, some people date those with
a strong resemblance to their Ex. Their Ex becomes their “type” and this is
probably an unhealthy cycle that they keep repeating. Great relationships
require hard work but not on a permanent basis. Being in a relationship and
ceaselessly trying to be more like the Ex is exhausting work. You will end up a
frustrated, perpetual underachiever.
Truth is said in jest. That’s
logical. Watch out for anyone you're in a relationship with who makes rude
comments about you and then claim they were just joking. Such jokes are the
truth spoken from the depths of their hearts.
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